"JUST WHAT IS COMMITMENT, ANYWAY?"
By John Milton Fogg
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COMMITMENT - It's Not Something You Choose To Do
"Huh? Of course I can choose to be committed or not be
committed."
Nope! Truth is, when it comes to being committed, we don't
have a "yes or no" choice - only choices about being committed
to this or to that.
You are already committed, I guarantee it!
We are, all of us, merely by virtue of being human beings,
flat-out, pedal-to-the-metal, commitment machines. We just
can't help it. We are born as commitment just waiting to
happen... We are commitment seeking experience and expression.
(Put another way: It's possible that you are not really
committed toanything. However, in that case, you also are not
breathing.)
"Hold on there! How can that be when lack of commitment lurks
behind every dysfunctional relationship, failed business
venture, sub-par performance, and ... ?"
Good question...
I assert it is not "lack of commitment" that's the "problem."
Commitment is not what's missing. The issue is WHAT are you
committed to?
Who's On First?
Sometimes (actually, all the time) commitments are engaged in
a power struggle. Remember the game "King of the Mountain"? A
bunch of kids would get together around a big mound of dirt
and the game was to be the one on top-- king of the mountain.
Once there, the object was to stay on top. All the other kids
would try to knock the king off and get to the top themselves.
Commitments just love that game. They play it all the time.
At any given point in time, in any situation or set of
circumstances, one commitment is king. Like our "real-world"
monarchs, some are better kings than others.
Commitment is a realist. You cannot and will not commit to
something you do not absolutely believe is possible. Some
commitments are dictators... Some are beneficent and wise.
It's not that there are good or bad or right or wrong commitments.
There are only commitments that empower you - and empower others -
and commitments that do not empower you and/or others.
For example: 99+ percent of us are committed to being right.
The SAME number are committed to looking good. Many people are
committed to their comfort. Others to convenience. Control is
another one. Committed to not being controlled is, too. There
are lots of things to be committed to...
Do any of these commitments show up for you? ...What others?
What you are committed to is what rules your life. That's why
commitment is so powerful, and the highest-level commitments
are ones that empower you and others.
How does the commitment to being right empower you?
How does the commitment to looking good empower?
In what ways does a commitment to be in control, or to not be
controlled, empower you ... empower the people you live and
work with?
Here's The Possibility for Commitment:
Commitment is a state of being where one takes the following
stand: To do whatever it takes to accomplish _______________
(you fill in the blank.)
Having a blank to fill in is what creates the possibility for
commitment. Commitment comes from having a goal, expectation,
desire, vision, result ...Something to achieve ...A place to
get to.
Since commitment comes from filling in the blank, what's
really neat is how you do that. You create it. You make it up.
Literally, you make something from nothing.
Add to that creation the commitment to do whatever it takes to
bring it about, and voilą-- life in the fast lane.
Sound exciting? ...Productive? ...Possibility of fun there?
..You bet!
Here's a Commitment to the Possibility:
People can commit only to what they believe is possible for
them to achieve!
Commitment is a lot like water: It has the persistent power to
make mountains into molehills over millennia and the hurricane
force to level entire communities in minutes. It is even more
powerful than water, much more so. Murray's quote shows us that.
And also like water, commitment seeks its own level. The level
it seeks is dictated by each individual's ability to believe in
the possibility.
No Possibility = No Commitment!
Commitment is a realist. You cannot and will not commit to
something you do not absolutely believe is possible.
To harness the power of commitment, we MUST create and cultivate
BELIEF! There is not one successful person in Network Marketing
earning $100,000+ and empowering hundreds of others to do the
same who does not believe it is possible and is not committed to
accomplishing that - not one!
One last thing:
Commitment Is the Tool of the Professional!
Author and educator Robert Fritz once gave me his definition of
a professional: "One who does whatever it takes to get the job
done, whether he or she feels like it or not. In short, one who
is committed."
What does it take to be a professional Network Marketer?
Doing whatever it takes to get the job done! ...Whatever it takes
to accomplish your goal - the possibility you made up to fill in
the blank and then committed to achieving.
One more time ... TO WHAT ARE YOU COMMITTED???
INFORM... INVOLVE... INSPIRE!
John Milton Fogg
Author - "The Greatest Networker In The World"
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